how to be love
Sometimes we have the attitude of, "I don't need anybody else. I can do it alone!"
Ahuv literally means "being beloved." Because whether with family relationships, business partners or friends, the human need to be loved is deep and natural. We need it like oxygen.
Of course, that love has to be earned. King Solomon said: "As water reflects a face, so does a person's heart." In other words, if you project coldness, you will attract coldness; if you give out warmth, you will attract warmth.
When people love you, they want to help you become wise and wealthy. They'll invite you to social functions, and patronize your business. They'll give you good advice -- and eagerly accept yours. You will succeed in all areas of life.
WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT OTHERS?
Let's start with a definition of love: "Taking pleasure in another's virtues." Hence the expression "to know him is to love him."
Make a list of the people you love. Study it and ask yourself: What about them do I take pleasure in? After you see the virtues, you have the basis for a true love relationship.
In return, to be loved by others, you must become virtuous in their eyes. Do for them what you'd want them to do for you. This will identify you as a source of pleasure -- and everyone loves those who bring them pleasure!
A general rule is to be happy and upbeat. It's a drain to be around people who mope and complain about every little thing. Be full of joy and vitality -- and you'll be well-loved!
COMMUNICATING LOVE
All parents love their children. So why is it that many children feel rejected? Because "feeling" love toward others is only a part of it. We also have to "communicate" that love. Many children only hear their parents' anger and criticisms -- and therefore get the wrong message.
To communicate love, you have to show you understand, appreciate and take pleasure in the other person's essence. Stop and analyze the
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